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Take Responsibility, Gain Power.

  As human beings, it is natural for us to feel frustrated and disappointed when things don't go as planned in our lives. We often look for someone or something to blame for our problems and failures. However, it is important to understand that holding others responsible for our life's problems can be detrimental to our personal growth and success. When we hold others responsible for our life failures, we give away our power to control our own lives. We become victims of circumstance, and our ability to take action and make positive changes in our lives diminishes. We become more and more weak, and we lose the motivation and energy to solve our problems. On the other hand, when we take responsibility for our lives, we empower ourselves to take action and make positive changes. We become proactive in finding solutions to our problems, and we regain control over our lives. We learn from our mistakes and use our failures as opportunities to grow and develop. Taking responsibility ...
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Over-communicating Kills Your Message

Over-communicating Kills Your Message One must practice to convey his message in less time and words, because in today's digital world people have many many options to learn or clear their doubts, people will start ignoring you if you speak too much to explain stuffs In today's fast-paced world, communication has become more important than ever before. With the rise of digital communication tools, people have a plethora of options to learn, interact, and clear their doubts. In such a scenario, over-communicating just kills the essence of your message. It is important to convey your message in fewer words and in less time, while still making sure it is clear and concise. Over-communicating is a common mistake people make while trying to convey their message. Many people think that the more they talk or write, the more effective their message will be. However, this is not true. When you over-communicate, you not only waste your time, but you also waste the time of your audience. ...

The Art of Letting Go in Relationships

Have you ever felt suffocated in a relationship? Have you experienced moments of anger, jealousy, competition, anxiety, or even hatred towards your partner or loved ones? If so, it could be because you're binding them more than necessary. In this blog, we will explore the concept of letting go in relationships and why it's crucial for healthy and fulfilling connections. In any relationship, whether it's romantic, familial, or friendship, it's important to remember that you are not the owner of the other person. You are merely a companion in their life's journey. When we try to control or bind someone too tightly, it can create a sense of suffocation, leading to negative emotions and strained dynamics. Just like a bird needs space to fly, a person needs the freedom to explore, make their own mistakes, and learn from them. Allowing the other person to be themselves and giving them the space they need doesn't mean you're not invested in the relationship. It...

What it means to be "Raised Well"

As a parent, you want your children to grow up to be happy, healthy, and successful adults. However, raising good, authentic, and ethical humans requires more than just providing them with academic education. It involves embedding beautiful habits and a strong value system in them from a young age. The first habit that parents must instill in their children is respect. Children need to know how to handle their egos and treat others with kindness and empathy. This means that they should learn to respect everyone's rights and not abuse their power over those who are weaker. Teaching children to be authentic in their relationships is also essential. Authenticity means being true to oneself and others. This includes being honest, trustworthy, and having integrity. Parents must encourage their children to communicate openly and honestly, without fear of judgment or criticism. Compromise is good, each and everyone needs to do certain compromises as the life is not perfect, but compromise...

Navigating the Rollercoaster: A Guide to Understand and Manage Your Emotions

Emotions are a natural part of human life, and they serve as a way for individuals to express their feelings and communicate with others. However, when emotions become over expressed or under expressed, it can have a negative impact on an individual's physical and mental health. In this article, we will explore how over expressed and under expressed emotions can be harmful to human health, and suggest some solutions to help individuals manage their emotions in a healthy way. Over expressed emotions refer to emotions that are expressed in an extreme or exaggerated manner. For example, individuals who frequently express anger or anxiety may be over expressing their emotions. Over expressing emotions can cause stress, anxiety, and depression, as well as other physical health problems such as high blood pressure and heart disease. Moreover, over expressing emotions can negatively impact relationships, leading to conflict and misunderstandings. On the other hand, under expressed emotion...

Who you are???

Who are you? It's a question that people have been trying to answer for centuries. We often identify ourselves by the things we own or the things we've accomplished. We might say, "I'm a lawyer," or "I'm a doctor," or "I went to Harvard." But the truth is, you are not what you owe, nor are you your education, your status, or any other external marker of success. The only thing that truly reveals what kind of person you are is how you behave in difficult or unlikeable situations. When things don't go your way, when you're faced with adversity, or when you're dealing with people who challenge you, how do you respond? If you behave poorly in those situations, it says a lot about your character. It suggests that you're not capable of handling stress or discomfort, that you lack emotional intelligence, and that you might not be trustworthy. People who act badly when things get tough are often seen as cowardly, fearful, and unauth...

Guess?? What is the most essential thing you must have after getting married? It's a healthy mother in law.

 Getting married is one of the most significant events in one's life, and it brings a lot of changes and responsibilities. One of the most crucial changes is the addition of new family members, including your in-laws. A healthy mother-in-law is a must-have in any family after marriage. Unfortunately, not all mothers-in-law are healthy, and this can lead to many problems in the household, including a heavy workload for the new bride. I got married at the age of 23 in 2003. I literally landed at my in-laws place stright from my hostel, where a found my mother in law who was a good natured women but had over weight with high blood pressure with both knees in almost dead condition. All that was needed in the house is a replica of my mother in law, to perform all her duties. When a young woman enters a new household after marriage, she expects to be greeted warmly and with love. However, when her mother-in-law is unhealthy and unable to perform her duties, it can become quite challengin...