Guess?? What is the most essential thing you must have after getting married? It's a healthy mother in law.

 Getting married is one of the most significant events in one's life, and it brings a lot of changes and responsibilities. One of the most crucial changes is the addition of new family members, including your in-laws. A healthy mother-in-law is a must-have in any family after marriage. Unfortunately, not all mothers-in-law are healthy, and this can lead to many problems in the household, including a heavy workload for the new bride. I got married at the age of 23 in 2003. I literally landed at my in-laws place stright from my hostel, where a found my mother in law who was a good natured women but had over weight with high blood pressure with both knees in almost dead condition.

All that was needed in the house is a replica of my mother in law, to perform all her duties.

When a young woman enters a new household after marriage, she expects to be greeted warmly and with love. However, when her mother-in-law is unhealthy and unable to perform her duties, it can become quite challenging for the new bride to adjust to her new life. 

The workload in the house increases, and the new bride is expected to take over all the duties of her mother-in-law, including cooking, cleaning, driving, buying goods that the family needs for everyday life, taking care of the family members housekeeping and the list goes on and on and on...

In such situations, it becomes challenging for the new bride to enjoy her early married life, as she is burdened with too many responsibilities. She may not have enough time for herself or her husband, and this can lead to frustration and unhappiness.

On the other hand, a healthy mother-in-law is an asset to any family. She can take care of herself and help with household chores, which eases the burden on the new bride. A healthy mother-in-law can be a great source of support and guidance for the new bride, and her presence can bring harmony and happiness to the family.

It is essential to understand that taking care of our health is crucial, not just for ourselves but for our family members as well. A healthy person can take care of themselves and others, and this leads to a happier and more fulfilling life for everyone. Eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and maintaining good hygiene are some of the key factors that can help us stay healthy and active.

In conclusion, a healthy mother-in-law is a must-have in any family after marriage. She can provide support, guidance, and help with many things, which can ease the burden on the new bride. It is essential to take care of our health and well-being so that we can enjoy our lives to the fullest and be there for our family members when they need us. A healthy lifestyle not only benefits us but also our loved ones, and it is a vital aspect of a happy and fulfilling life.

I hope this doesn't sound rude as conveying feelings in a language which is not your native is a bit tough,  as sometimes the language doesn't gives you  scope to speak  your heart the way you can do in your  native language.  

So all the mother in laws, it's crucial for you to understand that you must take care of your health, eat right, maintain a healthy lifestyle so that you remain an asset to your environment not a burden.