What a beautiful quote I found to start my article as it
gives the actual crux of this write up.
Every man dies. Not every man really lives.
सभी लोग मरते हैं, पर वास्तव में सभी लोग जीते नहीं हैं.
William Wallace
I challenge if anybody denies this fact that everybody
remembers death in life; only the day somebody close to us dies we are reminded
of DEATH.
Isn’t it?
T
hat’s the fact. Death actually need not be remembered every
time, but yes needs to be acknowledged at least. Why I have chosen this topic
to write as my friend’s husband died yesterday.
Mr. XYZ, only son of his parents, married and had two kids...
After his marriage things became tougher.
Every now and then there were quarrels, destructive conversations and
negativity in the house. There was no peace; no one was actually happy, despite
being financially sound.
His wife got separated from the family. One day another stone
fell onto the family when doctors disclosed that Mr. XYZ is having cancer, and
is actually on the initial stage.
A complete silence broke into the house and everyone’s’
focus just shifted from quarreling to the cancer patient now. This fellow underwent
chemo therapies for a long painful period of five years.
The last day doctors sent him back from hospital saying that
he had little time left as his cancer was on deathly stage.
At his death bed he hold his wife’s hand and said” Please
kill me before actually my death arrives, as I can’t bear this pain any more”.
The man actually died after few hours and got permanent
escape from his pain.
Now tell me is it worth to have a fear of death? When you
are not capable of handling your “LIFE”…
Don’t you think actually death is not fearful. Rather it is
life that is full of fears and worries. Death is an ultimate relief from all
pains.
{Suppose you are overweight and we helped you drop ten
kilograms, would you feel terrible and cry about it? Definitely not, most
people are ecstatic when they drop ten kilograms. Now suppose you dropped your
whole fifty or sixty kilograms, what is the big deal? If you know life the way
it is, and you are not lost in the heaps that you have gathered, shedding the
body is not such a big thing.
It is not some great drama; it is a natural process. What
you picked up you have to return and recycle. You may attach much significance
to your birth, life and death, but as far as Mother Earth is concerned, it is
just recycling. It pops you out and pulls you back in. You may assume too many
things about yourself, but what you have gathered you must return it is a good
habit whatever you take from anybody must be returned at some point.
Death is a
good habit; believe me.
So living should be divine, one must be full gratitude, full
of love, full of passion, full of giving, full of oneness…]
Mr. XYZ in my article have really not utilized his life
which a BOON provided, had stuck in all shits things, nothing will change after
his death, as universe is not constant. If he would have lived his life
unaffected, joyfully with divinity, he would have utilized this birth
meaningfully.
So friends LIVE LIFE, DON’T SPEND LIFE….
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