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Is Women, really a Women today???




WOMEN…

Don’t know, but people may wonder that this writer though being a woman speaks strange for Woman. Well, readers you may form a notion that I am an anti- feminist, but a patient reading will definitely change your perception.                                                                                                                     
 The women you find in the world today are not true women because she has been corrupted for centuries. Right now what is happening is women are trying to be like men. If a man smokes, the woman will also smoke. If they wear pants, the woman has to wear pants. Whatever a man can do, women can also do- this race is happening across the globe. Women certainly need a great liberalization, but what is happening on the name of liberalization is mere imitation of men. 

Real liberalization will make women authentically women, not a competitor of men.
I would like a woman to become really a woman. We all have to stop being in the mad race for equalization with our opposite sex, we need to stop being in comparing mode always. We have proven long long ago that women can also do things which man can do. Today woman is a leader, teacher, manager, entrepreneur, social activist and much more.  Women can be seen working in almost every field. What is happening now is a kind of unisex; men becoming more and more feminine, women becoming more and more masculine.  Therefore to prove ourselves equal is done. Now what actually is needed is-“BE A WOMAN”.            

Woman is sophisticated. That is why maybe God has chosen her to be a mother, to deliver a child, to nourish the baby. So we should not lose our soft, polite, calm, patient, sophisticated, smooth, sensitive side. Rather we must retain what god has gifted us.

I would recommend women to become as feminine as possible; practice her inherent qualities of caring, sharing and nurturing. Only then she would regain her lost prestige in the society: only then she would free herself from the shackles of that mad race for equalization with men.




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