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Exam time for children... Council them to study...

I have to start this blog with a famous quote of Khalil Gibran

Your children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls.

Still we as a parent have the responsibilities to Encourage/Decipline/ Guide and many more to help our child stay focus stay happy.

Few points to mention which I believe can be helpful to raise a responsible child...

1) Establish a routine: Encourage your teen to establish a daily routine for studying, including designated times for homework and study sessions. This will help them get into the habit of focusing on their studies.


2) Minimize distractions: Help your teen identify and minimize distractions, such as turning off their phone or finding a quiet study space.


3) Set achievable goals: Work with your teen to set realistic, achievable goals for their studies. This will help them stay motivated and focused on their goals.


4) Encourage active learning: Encourage your teen to engage in active learning, such as taking notes, asking questions, and participating in class discussions. This will help them retain information better and stay focused.


5) Practice self-care: Stress and lack of sleep can negatively impact focus and concentration. Encourage your teen to prioritize self-care, such as getting enough sleep and exercising regularly.


6) Utilize resources: Help your teen access resources, such as tutors or study groups, that can support their academic success.


7) Stay positive: Encourage a positive attitude towards learning and offer words of encouragement and support.


Remember, every teen is different, so it’s important to tailor your advice and strategies to your teen’s individual needs and learning style. By working together, you can help your teen concentrate and succeed in their studies.

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