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Who you are???

Who are you? It's a question that people have been trying to answer for centuries. We often identify ourselves by the things we own or the things we've accomplished. We might say, "I'm a lawyer," or "I'm a doctor," or "I went to Harvard." But the truth is, you are not what you owe, nor are you your education, your status, or any other external marker of success. The only thing that truly reveals what kind of person you are is how you behave in difficult or unlikeable situations. When things don't go your way, when you're faced with adversity, or when you're dealing with people who challenge you, how do you respond? If you behave poorly in those situations, it says a lot about your character. It suggests that you're not capable of handling stress or discomfort, that you lack emotional intelligence, and that you might not be trustworthy. People who act badly when things get tough are often seen as cowardly, fearful, and unauth...

Guess?? What is the most essential thing you must have after getting married? It's a healthy mother in law.

 Getting married is one of the most significant events in one's life, and it brings a lot of changes and responsibilities. One of the most crucial changes is the addition of new family members, including your in-laws. A healthy mother-in-law is a must-have in any family after marriage. Unfortunately, not all mothers-in-law are healthy, and this can lead to many problems in the household, including a heavy workload for the new bride. I got married at the age of 23 in 2003. I literally landed at my in-laws place stright from my hostel, where a found my mother in law who was a good natured women but had over weight with high blood pressure with both knees in almost dead condition. All that was needed in the house is a replica of my mother in law, to perform all her duties. When a young woman enters a new household after marriage, she expects to be greeted warmly and with love. However, when her mother-in-law is unhealthy and unable to perform her duties, it can become quite challengin...

Fear and Love are Conflicting

Fear and love are two emotions that are often intertwined, but they are also very different in their nature. While love can bring people closer, fear can drive them apart. If you are fearful of someone, it's very unlikely that you can love them in a healthy way. Fear is a powerful emotion that can be triggered by a variety of factors. It can be a response to a real threat, but it can also be the result of past experiences or conditioning. Fear can make us feel anxious, stressed, and even paralyzed. It can also cause us to behave in ways that are not true to ourselves, such as being overly submissive or aggressive. Love, on the other hand, is a complex emotion that encompasses a wide range of feelings and behaviors. It can be passionate and intense, but it can also be patient and compassionate. Love is about accepting someone for who they are and wanting the best for them, even if it means sacrificing your own needs. If you are fearful of someone, it's likely that you don't ...

Exam time for children... Council them to study...

I have to start this blog with a famous quote of Khalil Gibran Your children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls. Still we as a parent have the responsibilities to Encourage/Decipline/ Guide and many more to help our child stay focus stay happy. Few points to mention which I believe can be helpful to raise a responsible child... 1) Establish a routine: Encourage your teen to establish a daily routine for studying, including designated times for homework and study sessions. This will help them get into the habit of focusing on their studies. 2) Minimize distractions: Help your teen identify and minimize distractions, such as turning off their phone or finding a quiet study space. 3) Set achievable goals: Work w...

We're Limiting Ourselves through Expectation

इंसान को इंसान नही बल्की वो उम्मीदें धोखा देती हैं जो वो दुसरों से रखता है। My five year daughter met with an accident while playing in a birthday party, fell down from a ride literally broke her hand from elbow and had to undergo a surgery. Now as my daughter had stitches under bandage, and she being so naughty have to be under supervision almost 24 O 7 to avoid further complications. Now my husband as always is in extra energetic mode of experimenting is desperate to change the routine of his own and to that of his surroundings that too in our vacation time, keep singing that we have to get up from bed at 5 sharp and must finish our chores in no time to get some quality time to work upon our growth. Baby as in pain doesn’t let me sleep almost for all night; I did not disturb anyone thinking that why to bother others if I can handle this of my own. In such cold weather, after taking care of my injured baby the whole night, I got up to cook breakfast and his Tiffin, ...

Gender Sensitivity...

“If someone believes they are limited by their gender, race or background, they will become more limited.” Gender sensitivity is the act of being aware of the ways people think about gender so that individuals rely less on assumptions about traditional and outdated views on the roles of men and women. The phrase ‘gender sensitivity’ is perhaps an unfortunate piece of jargon, but it is convenient shorthand since a better, simpler and less loaded phrase does not yet present itself. As most people know, but many still do not fully grasp, ‘sex’ refers to biological differences, while ‘gender’ describes the characteristics that a society or culture dense as masculine or feminine. So in one sense, being sensitive to gender is not a matter of nicety or manners, but very much correlated with being sensitive to culture. General Dos & Don’ts on Gender and Peace-building Some Dos Do understand that unintended and counter-productive gender-specific effect the so...

Is Women, really a Women today???

WOMEN… Don’t know, but people may wonder that this writer though being a woman speaks strange for Woman. Well, readers you may form a notion that I am an anti- feminist, but a patient reading will definitely change your perception.                                                                                                                       The women you find in the world today are not true women because she has been corrupted for centuries. Right now what is happening is women are trying to be like men. If a man smokes, the woman will also smoke. If they wear pants, the woman has to wear pants. Whatever a man can do, women can also do- this race is happening across the...